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    One of the policies/procedures that I will continue to enforce strongly is the policy of not discussing playing time with parents or other players. Lineups, rotations, and individual playing time may seem strange to you while sitting in the stands, but please remember that playing time is not just a “quick decision” for any coach.

    For me, choices concerning playing time and lineups are made in an extremely thought out and carefully balanced manner. All decisions are made through an analysis of the following: what’s best for the team; which rotations “work” together and which ones don’t; players’ personal strengths and limitations (physical, mental, emotional); positional needs; player tendencies; opponents’ tendencies; the team’s long term goals; practice attendance; effort level and practice. Ultimately, it comes down to this question; “What is in the best interest of the team?” As you can see, I’m certainly using a great deal of data in making rotation and playing time decisions. Please remember this as a parent and fan. With this being said playing time decisions are the sole responsibility of me, the coach, and will not be discussed with parents.

    Should a player seek to discuss playing time issues with a coach, he may do so by talking with a coach before/after practice. Before or after a match is never an appropriate time to discuss playing time, as comments made during the heat of the moment may be largely inappropriate or hurtful. Neither players nor parents should discuss another player with a coach, as that act could be harmful to team unity and loyalty.

    Non State Cup or Region 1 Games:
    1. Develop Players
    2. Everyone plays, but not equal
    3. Play to win

    State Cup or Region 1 Games:
    1. Play to Win
    2. Playing time is not equal

    #2
    yes .

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      #3
      Yes but he didn't even owe you an explanation.

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        #4
        I guess the answer is subject, are you a helicopter parent that demands skippy or jenny gets what YOU think they deserve? Or are you a parent that looks at it with the perspective of the coach (Teacher, Boss, parent,etc) has laid out how he/she makes a certain decision and gives your player an equal opportunity to know whats expected and how they can succeed?

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          #5
          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
          One of the policies/procedures that I will continue to enforce strongly is the policy of not discussing playing time with parents or other players. Lineups, rotations, and individual playing time may seem strange to you while sitting in the stands, but please remember that playing time is not just a “quick decision” for any coach.

          For me, choices concerning playing time and lineups are made in an extremely thought out and carefully balanced manner. All decisions are made through an analysis of the following: what’s best for the team; which rotations “work” together and which ones don’t; players’ personal strengths and limitations (physical, mental, emotional); positional needs; player tendencies; opponents’ tendencies; the team’s long term goals; practice attendance; effort level and practice. Ultimately, it comes down to this question; “What is in the best interest of the team?” As you can see, I’m certainly using a great deal of data in making rotation and playing time decisions. Please remember this as a parent and fan. With this being said playing time decisions are the sole responsibility of me, the coach, and will not be discussed with parents.

          Should a player seek to discuss playing time issues with a coach, he may do so by talking with a coach before/after practice. Before or after a match is never an appropriate time to discuss playing time, as comments made during the heat of the moment may be largely inappropriate or hurtful. Neither players nor parents should discuss another player with a coach, as that act could be harmful to team unity and loyalty.

          Non State Cup or Region 1 Games:
          1. Develop Players
          2. Everyone plays, but not equal
          3. Play to win

          State Cup or Region 1 Games:
          1. Play to Win
          2. Playing time is not equal
          Yes. You are free to vote with your feet if you feel your kid isn't developing the way he/she should.

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            #6
            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
            One of the policies/procedures that I will continue to enforce strongly is the policy of not discussing playing time with parents or other players. Lineups, rotations, and individual playing time may seem strange to you while sitting in the stands, but please remember that playing time is not just a “quick decision” for any coach.

            For me, choices concerning playing time and lineups are made in an extremely thought out and carefully balanced manner. All decisions are made through an analysis of the following: what’s best for the team; which rotations “work” together and which ones don’t; players’ personal strengths and limitations (physical, mental, emotional); positional needs; player tendencies; opponents’ tendencies; the team’s long term goals; practice attendance; effort level and practice. Ultimately, it comes down to this question; “What is in the best interest of the team?” As you can see, I’m certainly using a great deal of data in making rotation and playing time decisions. Please remember this as a parent and fan. With this being said playing time decisions are the sole responsibility of me, the coach, and will not be discussed with parents.

            Should a player seek to discuss playing time issues with a coach, he may do so by talking with a coach before/after practice. Before or after a match is never an appropriate time to discuss playing time, as comments made during the heat of the moment may be largely inappropriate or hurtful. Neither players nor parents should discuss another player with a coach, as that act could be harmful to team unity and loyalty.

            Non State Cup or Region 1 Games:
            1. Develop Players
            2. Everyone plays, but not equal
            3. Play to win

            State Cup or Region 1 Games:
            1. Play to Win
            2. Playing time is not equal
            What age group? That matters. A lot. If this is a U10 team the coach is overthinking things by a wide margin. U14? I think it is spot on.

            Cujo

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              #7
              Does the coach have a kid on the team?

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                #8
                Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                Yes. You are free to vote with your feet if you feel your kid isn't developing the way he/she should.
                I think he's being disingenuous. He didn't add a couple of key factors to his playing time decision making:

                1) is the kid in question part of a large family of fee-paying soccer players, and I'm liable to lose multiple kids if I piss Mama-bear off?

                2) is the Mom cute?

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                  One of the policies/procedures that I will continue to enforce strongly is the policy of not discussing playing time with parents or other players. Lineups, rotations, and individual playing time may seem strange to you while sitting in the stands, but please remember that playing time is not just a “quick decision” for any coach.

                  For me, choices concerning playing time and lineups are made in an extremely thought out and carefully balanced manner. All decisions are made through an analysis of the following: what’s best for the team; which rotations “work” together and which ones don’t; players’ personal strengths and limitations (physical, mental, emotional); positional needs; player tendencies; opponents’ tendencies; the team’s long term goals; practice attendance; effort level and practice. Ultimately, it comes down to this question; “What is in the best interest of the team?” As you can see, I’m certainly using a great deal of data in making rotation and playing time decisions. Please remember this as a parent and fan. With this being said playing time decisions are the sole responsibility of me, the coach, and will not be discussed with parents.

                  Should a player seek to discuss playing time issues with a coach, he may do so by talking with a coach before/after practice. Before or after a match is never an appropriate time to discuss playing time, as comments made during the heat of the moment may be largely inappropriate or hurtful. Neither players nor parents should discuss another player with a coach, as that act could be harmful to team unity and loyalty.

                  Non State Cup or Region 1 Games:
                  1. Develop Players
                  2. Everyone plays, but not equal
                  3. Play to win

                  State Cup or Region 1 Games:
                  1. Play to Win
                  2. Playing time is not equal
                  I see no mention of player development. Only team needs. That is odd.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                    I see no mention of player development. Only team needs. That is odd.
                    Can you read? It is NUMBER 1

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                      Yes but he didn't even owe you an explanation.
                      Yah he does, you pay his salary....

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                        I see no mention of player development. Only team needs. That is odd.
                        "Team needs" and "long term goals" necessarily include development of fringe players. I think letter is perfect. (But let's make it clear that this is "u14 appropriate" so the u12 and under mini-mourinhos don't feel empowered to run further amok.)

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                          Does the coach have a kid on the team?
                          If so then run, don't walk. NEVER works, inherent conflict of interest.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                            Yah he does, you pay his salary....
                            As long as everyone gets a trophy!

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
                              Yah he does, you pay his salary....
                              Haha! Get real. The "explanation" is always right there in front of you but coaches won't tell you what is so obvious.

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