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Who is right? Here's a long-winded answer: My hope is that my kids will want to play soccer at age 14, 24, 34, 44 and maybe 54, always at the best level they can achieve, always with joyful confidence. I want them to think of me when they play, and thank me for the opportunities I've provided them to learn from a young age the right way to strike a ball, to use both feet, to trap the ball, to do all the 'building block' things I'm paying for them to learn. (Yes--I have to pay others, as I am not a player, though I happily stumble along, trying to play with them.) I want them to love the game. The only way this will happen is if they have fun and get satisfaction from playing. I know from personal experience (albeit in a different game) that playing a sport you love is beneficial in many ways: it is a fantastic ice breaker in an unfamiliar environment (such as when you arrive at a big university, or at a new city, or at a new job); it is a tremendous opportunity to make friends and bond with people in a positive environment (the post-game beer is sooo much better than the six-pack in front of the TV); the health benefits of an active life are unquestionable; working to improve your game, and seeing results when you reach goals is a phenomenal source of earned self-confidence. What kind of youth soccer has the best chance of making this happen? Not once-a-week, dad-coached rec soccer, which can be loads of fun, don't get me wrong, but doesn't build the competency needed for a life-long player. Not "learn your position and your role in my system" soccer, because that (even if coupled with excellent technical training) creates a grim, result driven perception of the game-as-job that inevitably becomes joyless. (Again, I'm relying on my personal experience, but kids who get yelled at don't learn to love their game. They might learn to 'perform', but they don't love their game.) I believe that the best chance of creating the kind of appetite for the game I'm hoping for comes from youth training that will fill these kids with skills that might rust over the years but will never completely disappear; skills that will allow them to fit into a game in any environment--and make them WANT to find a game. Skills that they will pass on to others, so that we can actually have a soccer culture here, and bring the masses to this game in a way that our current approach is failing to do. When the masses come to soccer, greatness will emerge. We don't have to get rid of games--if parents and coaches can curb their egos, competition is a great thing for kids. We just can't allow it to drive people away from the game. Wins and Losses and Revenue and Retention and Market Share and Paying Customers are the shibboleths of the youth sports "tacticians" and have ZERO to do with creating a love of the game that will lead to the soccer culture I dream of.
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What exactly do they do for the first 45 mins? I am curious.
Originally posted by Unregistered View PostNo doubt. NEFC spends the first 45 minutes of every practice doing technical training. They are so technical heavy that sometimes I worry my kid might forget how to dribble with the ball since they focus so much on technical and skills.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWho is right? Here's a long-winded answer: My hope is that my kids will want to play soccer at age 14, 24, 34, 44 and maybe 54, always at the best level they can achieve, always with joyful confidence. I want them to think of me when they play, and thank me for the opportunities I've provided them to learn from a young age the right way to strike a ball, to use both feet, to trap the ball, to do all the 'building block' things I'm paying for them to learn. (Yes--I have to pay others, as I am not a player, though I happily stumble along, trying to play with them.) I want them to love the game. The only way this will happen is if they have fun and get satisfaction from playing. I know from personal experience (albeit in a different game) that playing a sport you love is beneficial in many ways: it is a fantastic ice breaker in an unfamiliar environment (such as when you arrive at a big university, or at a new city, or at a new job); it is a tremendous opportunity to make friends and bond with people in a positive environment (the post-game beer is sooo much better than the six-pack in front of the TV); the health benefits of an active life are unquestionable; working to improve your game, and seeing results when you reach goals is a phenomenal source of earned self-confidence. What kind of youth soccer has the best chance of making this happen? Not once-a-week, dad-coached rec soccer, which can be loads of fun, don't get me wrong, but doesn't build the competency needed for a life-long player. Not "learn your position and your role in my system" soccer, because that (even if coupled with excellent technical training) creates a grim, result driven perception of the game-as-job that inevitably becomes joyless. (Again, I'm relying on my personal experience, but kids who get yelled at don't learn to love their game. They might learn to 'perform', but they don't love their game.) I believe that the best chance of creating the kind of appetite for the game I'm hoping for comes from youth training that will fill these kids with skills that might rust over the years but will never completely disappear; skills that will allow them to fit into a game in any environment--and make them WANT to find a game. Skills that they will pass on to others, so that we can actually have a soccer culture here, and bring the masses to this game in a way that our current approach is failing to do. When the masses come to soccer, greatness will emerge. We don't have to get rid of games--if parents and coaches can curb their egos, competition is a great thing for kids. We just can't allow it to drive people away from the game. Wins and Losses and Revenue and Retention and Market Share and Paying Customers are the shibboleths of the youth sports "tacticians" and have ZERO to do with creating a love of the game that will lead to the soccer culture I dream of.
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[QUOTE=Unregistered;1435899]Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
Even playing small sided games you need shape to attack and defend. Players can not just run around and play. Futsal, 7v7, 9v9 you need shape.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostWho is right? Here's a long-winded answer: My hope is that my kids will want to play soccer at age 14, 24, 34, 44 and maybe 54, always at the best level they can achieve, always with joyful confidence. I want them to think of me when they play, and thank me for the opportunities I've provided them to learn from a young age the right way to strike a ball, to use both feet, to trap the ball, to do all the 'building block' things I'm paying for them to learn. (Yes--I have to pay others, as I am not a player, though I happily stumble along, trying to play with them.) I want them to love the game. The only way this will happen is if they have fun and get satisfaction from playing. I know from personal experience (albeit in a different game) that playing a sport you love is beneficial in many ways: it is a fantastic ice breaker in an unfamiliar environment (such as when you arrive at a big university, or at a new city, or at a new job); it is a tremendous opportunity to make friends and bond with people in a positive environment (the post-game beer is sooo much better than the six-pack in front of the TV); the health benefits of an active life are unquestionable; working to improve your game, and seeing results when you reach goals is a phenomenal source of earned self-confidence. What kind of youth soccer has the best chance of making this happen? Not once-a-week, dad-coached rec soccer, which can be loads of fun, don't get me wrong, but doesn't build the competency needed for a life-long player. Not "learn your position and your role in my system" soccer, because that (even if coupled with excellent technical training) creates a grim, result driven perception of the game-as-job that inevitably becomes joyless. (Again, I'm relying on my personal experience, but kids who get yelled at don't learn to love their game. They might learn to 'perform', but they don't love their game.) I believe that the best chance of creating the kind of appetite for the game I'm hoping for comes from youth training that will fill these kids with skills that might rust over the years but will never completely disappear; skills that will allow them to fit into a game in any environment--and make them WANT to find a game. Skills that they will pass on to others, so that we can actually have a soccer culture here, and bring the masses to this game in a way that our current approach is failing to do. When the masses come to soccer, greatness will emerge. We don't have to get rid of games--if parents and coaches can curb their egos, competition is a great thing for kids. We just can't allow it to drive people away from the game. Wins and Losses and Revenue and Retention and Market Share and Paying Customers are the shibboleths of the youth sports "tacticians" and have ZERO to do with creating a love of the game that will lead to the soccer culture I dream of.
Awesome post. I agree and though there are parents of future D1 players on this site, I'd venture to guess that most of are not, or it's too early to even know that, so for me personally this sums up our approach to our kids soccer endgame. Simply to love the game enough to play throughout their entire life, at the highest level they are able and garner all the side benefits that playing a sport also garners them. When my husband and I first discussed having kids, one of the things we agreed on, was investing our money (we are not wealthy) in sports should they show interest. We both agree its worth the investment, not for some elusive scholarship payoff, but for the reasons you outlined. And I agree, it's not an all or nothing proposition with games and competition. Playing the game is where the love of the game comes from IMO, but as you said, it's the ego's involved with the adults that becomes the biggest hinderance to creating the soccer culture you aspire to.
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