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Did anyone happen to catch Hammer FC men 98/99 team? What a team they played like Barcelona. They have a couple of players that the Revs could easily look at.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostSo you and I agree. The questions you raise are exactly my point. No one here advocates for abuse, but there are some who apply that word to a coach who simply doesn't recognize nor appreciate the obvious talent that lies within their D.
http://www.nscaa.com/web/about/code_...2-4e8ef01cff3d
http://www.eliteclubsnationalleague....de-of-conduct/
http://www.starsofma.org/CodesofConduct/index_E.html
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostDefine emotional.
What do you have to do to prepare a mentally tough athlete?
What type of players do you need to let know where they stand? Is it about talent, effort, mistakes? By doing that, does it change anything? Maybe effort, and that can be good and bad.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostSo you and I agree. The questions you raise are exactly my point. No one here advocates for abuse, but there are some who apply that word to any coach that simply doesn't recognize nor appreciate the obvious talent that lies within their D.
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Emotional coaches, in many cases, place too much stock into winning. It's pretty obvious that with them it's for other selfish reasons, not player development.
Bullying or abusive coaches have an effect on kids. There is a cost playing in that environment. It rubs off on your kid. Win at all cost, dirty or not. I'll take a coach anyday that comes with a plan, stays true to the players giving full effort, focuses on player development and lets the wins and losses fall as they may. That's a club that won't have to spend much on marketing.
Originally posted by Unregistered View PostEasy SJWs
No one is condoning abuse - that's just foolish.
The discussion, if there actually is one, is what constitutes abuse?
Take any coach who is emotional, who lets players know where they stand, and who continuously demands excellence from the team. Are they preparing mentally tough athletes who know what it takes to win at the highest level, or are they ruining little girls by crushing their soccer dreams and stepping on their self-confidence?
Abuse can not be tolerated. physical abuse is easy to report. Is there a bright line standard for emotional abuse?
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostEmotional coaches, in many cases, place too much stock into winning. It's pretty obvious that with them it's for other selfish reasons, not player development.
Bullying or abusive coaches have an effect on kids. There is a cost playing in that environment. It rubs off on your kid. Win at all cost, dirty or not. I'll take a coach anyday that comes with a plan, stays true to the players giving full effort, focuses on player development and lets the wins and losses fall as they may. That's a club that won't have to spend much on marketing.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostGreat tournament GPS, THANK YOU! So nice to see good soccer after that awful high school season. Most games were on time and nice to not have to travel too far. Well done running the tournament!
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThe abuse stories are pretty dated. JD has evolved more than many of you realize over the past few years. My kid had a pretty rough weekend, playing wise, but she didn't get ripped apart the way people here might expect. You folks on the outside are not as well-informed as you think you are.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostNot true-D has friends on 2003 and 2004 ECNL. Said he was sitting on the bench cursing out players on the field to other players on the bench. As recently as last year one parent of an older girl told me he called a teammate the "C" word. Unbelievable. And they pay for that? I think there are many ways to coach mental toughness that do not involve calling teen girls the "C" word.
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Originally posted by Unregistered View PostThis is a true story, the girl went to one of the local prep schools and when she left his team prior to her U18 year she wrote a paper for a class presentation describing the event and speaking about how he destroyed her love for the game. Her father used to speak about how she needed tough coaching when he moved her to his team but JD took a one time regional pool player and turned her into a kid who clearly did not enjoy soccer any longer that ended up in local D3 program.
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Negativity is not motivation.
Ask and inspire. Not command and control.
Intimidation does not equal high expectations.
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