My wife and I are desperate and a good friend suggested we seek help on this website. He warned us that many will scoff, but at least one or two very knowledgeable posters will gladly chime in and offer very solid advice.
We are a true-blue middle class family. I have a pretty successful HVAC business and my wife is a 3rd grade teacher. She brings the brains to the family. We both were the first to graduate from college and we both have worked hard to get where we are. We want our kids to really value hard work. We live in a nice 3000 sq ft home with 4 bedrooms and 2.5 bathrooms. Yes, we have a huge mortgage but we have great neighbors and feel safe. We are hard-core Trump supporters. All hail the Donald!
My wife and I both graduated from regional state schools. I graduated from Rowan in NJ and my wife went to Westfield State. We are both huge proponents of these types of schools because they are tremendous values, you get what you need, and there is none of the snot factor that makes both of us throw up. We haven't been able to save a ton for college and so we are pushing our 3 kids to think hard about the MASCAC schools. My daughter, who is our soccer player, is 15. We suffer no delusions about her getting a D1 scholarship and we certainly are not going to borrow the kind of money necessary to go for one of those insanely overpriced and overrated D3 schools that the professional class love to go on and on about on the sidelines. Please, I need to take a shower just thinking about it.
So, here's the dilemma. My daughter has been a strong player on a NEP level team for several years. She will be one of the best couple of players on our pretty good high school team her last two years. There is a NPL coach who has inquired about her periodically over the past year, and we aren't sure what to do. She wouldn't be a star on this NPL but she would be a a very solid contributor. She knows a couple of the girls on the team and really likes them. We're not unhappy with her current club but we don't know if staying will decrease her chances of having a strong playing career at Framingham or Worcester State.
NPL will cost us roughly twice as much as we are currently paying. We have two other kids to think about. What should we do? Btw, our daughter is a good student. She usually gets all As or at most one or two Bs and based on her PSAT she'll likely score around the 1250 range on the new SAT.
We are a true-blue middle class family. I have a pretty successful HVAC business and my wife is a 3rd grade teacher. She brings the brains to the family. We both were the first to graduate from college and we both have worked hard to get where we are. We want our kids to really value hard work. We live in a nice 3000 sq ft home with 4 bedrooms and 2.5 bathrooms. Yes, we have a huge mortgage but we have great neighbors and feel safe. We are hard-core Trump supporters. All hail the Donald!
My wife and I both graduated from regional state schools. I graduated from Rowan in NJ and my wife went to Westfield State. We are both huge proponents of these types of schools because they are tremendous values, you get what you need, and there is none of the snot factor that makes both of us throw up. We haven't been able to save a ton for college and so we are pushing our 3 kids to think hard about the MASCAC schools. My daughter, who is our soccer player, is 15. We suffer no delusions about her getting a D1 scholarship and we certainly are not going to borrow the kind of money necessary to go for one of those insanely overpriced and overrated D3 schools that the professional class love to go on and on about on the sidelines. Please, I need to take a shower just thinking about it.
So, here's the dilemma. My daughter has been a strong player on a NEP level team for several years. She will be one of the best couple of players on our pretty good high school team her last two years. There is a NPL coach who has inquired about her periodically over the past year, and we aren't sure what to do. She wouldn't be a star on this NPL but she would be a a very solid contributor. She knows a couple of the girls on the team and really likes them. We're not unhappy with her current club but we don't know if staying will decrease her chances of having a strong playing career at Framingham or Worcester State.
NPL will cost us roughly twice as much as we are currently paying. We have two other kids to think about. What should we do? Btw, our daughter is a good student. She usually gets all As or at most one or two Bs and based on her PSAT she'll likely score around the 1250 range on the new SAT.
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